Oh so very sick...

Well this weekend I headed up to visit the best friend at her new place and ended up having to listen to her and the fiancee fight and almost break up. Sunday I came home only to end up so sick that I was out of work both monday and tuesday and really wished I had stayed home today also. I think that I will be heading home in a little while to go back to bed...at 4pm. I spent most of my day monday throwing up in such a prolonged and violent manner that it actually hurts when I breath.

I did drag my self out of bed yesterday long enough to go to the laundry and get annoyed but how women will let their little kids act. As I have pointed out before I hate the way people let their kids act at that laundry...like it is their own home for them to destroy.

From Another blogger...

I was reading This Fish tonight and came across ed her post about Next!ing. I loved it since there are a few men in my phone that needed to be next!ed. I followed her example and got rid of a few.

While I was reading the comments, one of her readers said this....

Never make someone a priority
who only sees you as a option!

this was added to my mirror for me to see daily and when I am feeling shitty cause the one I next!ed still isn't calling me.

Baby J has arrived!

So Thursday I headed up to my hometown as soon as I could get out of work to help my sister when she had her induction on friday. We had to be at the hospital at 5am and at 6 they started her on the pitocin. Nothing much happened till about 4pm then things progressed rapidly and at 5:05pm he was born. Baby J is really little weighing in at 7 pounds 10 oz. We were thinking he would be more like 9-10 so it was a big shock when they put him on the scale and read out that number. He and mom are doing great and went home on sunday morning.

I came home saturday evening, after stopping and picking up a load of stuff from my storage unit. Saturday I put the last chunk of money down on my bridesmaid's dress for L's wedding in July. I have to head back up next weekend to visit with L. since I didn't get to see her while I was back.

I had a few thoughts as I sat there waiting for Lil Sis to pop and I am still getting them sorted out on paper before I write about them. But one thing I will say is that a few days before I got ready to go up there I came to a conclusion.... I need to stop looking for a man. All it does is stress me out and then when I go out with one a few times and he turn out to be a loser I can't get rid of him. So I am going on a dating hiatus. And that will have to tide you over till I can get the rest of my thoughts on paper.

Open Letter...

*** Warning much swearing in this post! I have had too much wine on a empty stomach and this is my way of not drunk dialing anyone. Please forgive my ranting ***

To The new 'Production Manager' at work: FUCK OFF! You are a asshat who doesn't know how to do the job you were hired for so get off my back. It is not my fault you do not know how to read our drawings. It is not my fault you got sent out on my huge install this week, but PLEASE don't fuck this up for me. I really don't need you walking around saying I made a mistake, when it is just you not understanding how to install something that is worth more than your own house.

OOOOOOHHHH and let me not forget to mention the DR Jekyll/Mr Hyde builder for the above mention project being installed who just called my PERSONAL cell phone at 9:50pm. You sir take the cake! After your yelling fit that no was to call you on Saturday because that is YOUR time, you call me and interrupt my personal time?! Just be glad I screened your call or you would have been getting a earful from me!

And now that I have exhausted myself ranting I am off to bed. Maybe this will help me fall asleep better tonight since lord know I didn't get much sleep last night.